Problem: `with_token` was duplicated in `gcal.lua` and `gtasks.lua`,
with the concurrency lock added only to the gtasks copy. Any new
backend would silently inherit the same race, and gcal back-to-back
push could still create duplicate remote calendar events.
Solution: lift `with_token` into `oauth.lua` as
`M.with_token(client, name, callback)` behind a module-level
`_sync_in_flight` guard. All backends share one implementation; the
lock covers gcal, gtasks, and any future backend automatically.