docs: add icons config, PendingTab recipes, and demo infrastructure

Problem: icon customization and auto-start workflow are undocumented;
no demo asset exists for the README.

Solution: document pending.Icons in vimdoc with nerd font and ASCII
recipes, add PendingTab to commands and mappings, add open-on-startup
recipe, add demo-init.lua and demo.tape for VHS screenshot generation,
add assets/ directory, add README icons section and demo placeholder.

spec/icons_spec.lua

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+require('spec.helpers')
+
+local config = require('pending.config')
+
+describe('icons', function()
+  before_each(function()
+    vim.g.pending = nil
+    config.reset()
+  end)
+
+  after_each(function()
+    vim.g.pending = nil
+    config.reset()
+  end)
+
+  it('has default icon values', function()
+    local icons = config.get().icons
+    assert.equals('○', icons.pending)
+    assert.equals('✓', icons.done)
+    assert.equals('●', icons.priority)
+    assert.equals('▸', icons.header)
+    assert.equals('·', icons.due)
+    assert.equals('↺', icons.recur)
+    assert.equals('#', icons.category)
+  end)
+
+  it('allows overriding individual icons', function()
+    vim.g.pending = { icons = { pending = '-', done = 'x' } }
+    config.reset()
+    local icons = config.get().icons
+    assert.equals('-', icons.pending)
+    assert.equals('x', icons.done)
+    assert.equals('●', icons.priority)
+    assert.equals('▸', icons.header)
+  end)
+
+  it('allows overriding all icons', function()
+    vim.g.pending = {
+      icons = {
+        pending  = '-',
+        done     = 'x',
+        priority = '!',
+        header   = '>',
+        due      = '@',
+        recur    = '~',
+        category = '+',
+      },
+    }
+    config.reset()
+    local icons = config.get().icons
+    assert.equals('-', icons.pending)
+    assert.equals('x', icons.done)
+    assert.equals('!', icons.priority)
+    assert.equals('>', icons.header)
+    assert.equals('@', icons.due)
+    assert.equals('~', icons.recur)
+    assert.equals('+', icons.category)
+  end)
+end)