Problem: `extra_scp_args`, `extra_s3_args`, and `extra_curl_args` are
global — there's no way to pass adapter-specific args only to a single
host or bucket (e.g. `-O` for a Synology NAS that requires legacy SCP
protocol, or `--endpoint-url` for an R2 bucket).
Solution: add `ssh_hosts`, `s3_buckets`, and `ftp_hosts` config tables
that map exact hostnames/bucket names to per-target arg lists. Per-target
args are appended after the global args at call time. The `scp()` helper
in `ssh.lua` accepts a `hosts` list so cross-host copies deduplicate
host lookups. `create_s3_command` in `s3fs.lua` extracts the bucket from
the command args with no call-site changes needed. `resolved_curl_args`
in `ftp.lua` is called by both `curl()` and `ftpcmd()`.
Based on: stevearc/oil.nvim#607